Mother in-law question am I right not to like her?

Ok here goes when i met my now husband from day 1 my mother in-law didnt like me at the start i thought it was just because i was taking her boy away and and i was taking care of him like paying his bills cooking cleaning and all the things that a good partner dose but now still after 7 years together and 3 and a half hears of mariage she still hates me i have no idea why i have always worked i have always taken care of her son in the ways a wife should.
When i was pregnant with our first (son) she never came arround to see him never gave us gifts for him never picked him up and she still dosent then it was the same when we had our daughter
She has told other people that she dosent care if she ever sees the kids she has said that she dosent love them and i recently lost another baby who was still born and she showed no sympathy what so ever and now her other sons girlfriend is pregnant she is going all out and buying her nappies and clothes and making her linnen blankets and buying them everything that a mother to be would need and when they announced to them that they are pregnant the first thing she said is Christina better not be pregnant (thats me)
And another thing is when my son was dying in hospital from Bacterial meningitis and was in hospital for 3 weeks not once did she come to visit or even call to see how he was.
My question is how am i supposed to be civle with this lady???
She hates me and to be quite frank i dont like her i dont know if we should cut all ties with her because my father in-law is a great guy and he is great with the kids.

She always bitches about me behind my back and telling people the most horriffic lies about me but to my face most of the time she is nice and when i see her most of the time i want to just slap her because of what she has said.
My husband always just wants to keep the peace so he dosent say much about it i really dont know what to do.

Am i right for not liking her?
What could i do to try fix this ?

I don't think you can fix that which is unfix able. To not like you is her choice but your children deserve better from their Grandmother. For her to snub your kids, and ignore the loss of your precious baby, is unforgivable. If she truly hates you so much I am sure you can live with out her in your life or the kids lives. If your husband knows how she has treated you and the kids he should understand how you feel. After all it was his baby that died to.I don't know how she can be so cold to you and the kids and to her son as well. I don't know you and feel great sorrow for the loss of the precious life. You can keep in touch with the father in law, but apparently she will not care either way. May God for give her for such coldness to you and your children.
I would not like her if I were you either. I would stay away from her. And if the rest of the family wants you to come around I would visit them and not her. Seems that is the way she wants it to be.
Don't bother to try to fix it, she would love that , like you begging for her approval. No telling why she feels this way, just be happy with your children and husband, and let her be in her own miserable life.
And I want to say I am sorry for your loss of your child.
God Bless your family and you hold your head up and be happy with what you do have,

Sounds like you have every right to despise this woman. I can not believe she treats your children in such a horrible manner. Because she is your husbands mother cutting ties may cause problems between you and your husband and that would let her win. Kill her with kindness this is the best revenge you can give to this kind of person.

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Posted on at 4:29 pm by cfz.
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